Love Tips

Falling In Love With your Class Mate

Petty Fights Helps A Lot.

It is more common among lovers that they fight most of the time. Don’t ever be bothered by those fights. In fact those little fights helps your relationship keep going in a healthy way. Fighting with your partner may seem ridiculous sometimes but fighting really tightens the bond. You might have noticed that your parents used to fight often even after decades after their marriage, but it will be really interesting for you to know that only these petty fights keeps them going so long.

I dont really mean that you should start off to fight with your partner, but I just wanted you to know that fighting really helps a lot. Also its interesting to know that you dont really have to make any effort to start off with a fight, its very common that as you talk to eachother these petty fights used to happen on their own. Instead of taking those fights seriously make it as a play and I am sure both of you will enjoy it a lot. Also please make sure you dont carry over anything serious out of them. This is eventually may lead some troubles. So don’t take fighting a serious issue instead make use of it to strengthen the bond between both of you.

Girls Like Bold Boys

Boys usually tend to get nervous once they meet up with a girl they were looking around for ages and finally come across one who they are really looking for. So in times like this its highly probable that you tend to get more restless once they approach you and its also possible that you may shy away even if you are thrown out with an opportunity to meet her or talk to her.

I just want you to make a point that if you want to attract that girl you have always dreamed about, be bold and talk to them very confidently. And make sure you dont throw away any signals that you are weak in front on them, make sure you show only your sturdy side of yours. This will create more trust on the other towards you which is a good sign to start with.

Also when you feel its the right time to tell her that you love her, just make sure you say it directly to her, instead of giving out a card to express what you feel or over telephone. Just make a date if possible and  let her know that you love and her and want to live the rest of your life with her.  This is the right way to propose any girl you inclined towards.

Trusting The Other

When it comes to any relationship trust plays a very major role. So without doubt trusting the person you love will play a great role in your love life. But trusting the other is not as simple as it sounds. I came across many people who used to be in relationship for years but still they have some kind of doubt which always spoils their relationship at some point of time and eventually leads to breakup unnecessarily. Almost 95% of the problems in your love life is due to lack of trust and I can even go up on that percentage. So how can you really trust the other?

Normally people try to change the person who you love to their way or they want the other to follow what they think is right. They dont usually look in to the other person’s point of view, this is more common with girls usually but I wont deny this kind of quality is present in boys too.

Trust is built not by changing the other but by changing yourself. always watch whatever you do while you are in a relationship and always try to see from others point of view too. Its been always a problem with boys that they keep on inquring on the words told by their partner and try to get what they really mean. I would like to say stop loitering around whats said and start to get in to the real intention of the other.

If you think you cant really able to get on with the other. I would really recommend dont waste your time. Try to find someone with whom you can really able to feel happy and blissful. Its one of the essential part of trusting the person you love. At first you need to feel something really good while they are around otherwise there is no point in loving the other or acting like you love the other person. Its important because without this feeling you wont really find the enthusiasm to know the other. You may just love the other person just because he/she looks beautiful but its not worth it unless you feel the other is just a part of you.

How to Get a Girl’s Attention

Is there a cutie at the office place that you wish would look up from the keyboard and talk to you? Or perhaps a college girl that you wish would get your nose out of her book and be studying you instead? Sitting there thinking about it is not going to do anything for you. It takes action and as a man, you have to live a little and just do it.

There are a few things that get a woman’s attention, so if you follow the basics you will have her looking your way in no time.

First of all, you need to be looking sharp. Do not wear baggy clothing that makes you look lazy or unkept. Make sure you are clean cut and keeping yourself in the best shape. In an office enviornment you will want to have a casual, but handsome suit or dress clothing. Do not be too strict and tight with your style though. Have some freedom and express yourself with perhaps a fun tie. By fun, I do not mean some goofy tie that plays music or has cartoon characters on it. Express yourself, but do it in a reasonable manner. For school environments, go for clean, unripped, blue jeans and a button up collared shirt. No matter where you are you want something attractive. This may not outright get their attention, but it will not turn her away once you get the attention.

Now that you are set for keeping her attention, you need the steps to catch it initially. Basically if you are reading this you are doing the wrong thing. Get off the computer and be active. If you speak, you emit sounds, ears pick up sound… common sense. So say stuff. Do not rant about nonsense like politics, comic books or anything that is divisive or lame. You may enjoy it and it may be cool, but a woman does not want to hear about who Superman is battling and who will die in the next Batman novel. Just speaking, and not making a fool of yourself is most of the work. If you can, find an excuse to talk to the girl. Double check some numbers, get directions, do whatever.

While you are talking, remember not to be monotone and unexpressive. Women love funny guys. Remember though, funny is not offensive, funny is witty. Keep your offensive jokes for when you are hanging out with guys. When looking for your girl’s attention, say something relevant and witty.

Most of this is obvious stuff, the problem is, we like to complicate things when it comes to dating. We think about rejection and a ton of variables. Stop thinking about it and just live. If you fail, what happens? Nothing… You can get another chance.

10 sweetest thing you can do to attract the girl you love.

1. girls love guys with humor, so make sure you get yourself loaded with a good amount of jokes and make   use of those at regular breaks. You can even use them to start a conversation, its more fun you start it up with a joke.

2. Make sure to have a smiling face even if you are not so happy on the inside, smiling face always attracts more attention, it shows that you are happy and fun loving, girls just fall for a guy who looks happy than for a person who looks handsome.

3. Make sure to use best perfume. girls like boys who smell good when they are near you and its scientifically proven fact.

4. Be expressive rather than just being on the receptive side in a conversation. A small debate often helps a lot to get things on the right track.

5. Always be positive in your expression, don’t focus on the negative aspects of any issue while you are engaged in a conversation.

6. Make sure to give attention to some of their mannerism and tell her about it, like you like the way she does it or something like that. This proves that you are giving close attention to her and that makes a girl happy.

7. Always know that girls want to boys to give more attention to their beauty. So more you praise them about their look more is the chance that they will be attracted towards you. Although you may not feel like telling anything just make sure you do this when ever possible.

8. Call them regularly, if possible call them at least once a day. when you do it for a while say for a week or so, if you miss a day or two in between they will start to miss you and think about you, so it gives a good chance for you get in to an relationship better.

9. Make sure you make your presence felt while you both are conversing in a group.

10. Give them surprise gifts occasionally girls love surprises.

The Beauty Upon Our Lips

Here is a Poem I wrote to show regret for hurting your loved one, and asking for forgiveness.

I take the sins upon me, as heaven’s ashes wash away with my tears
Please kiss away the blood, as I drink the poison from my heart
Forever entombed inside me lies dreams of you

Sweet star up in the sky, I’ll cut it out for you my love
Hold it onto your heart, it will weep for my sins
As I exhale, release me gorgeous lips,  make us whole

The midnight lullaby of your soft breath and beating heart upon my chest
Amethyst like Hyacinths, will you receive them in my regret?
Ostentatious shadows cascade me, will you be my twilight?

This stagnated despondency, morning elegies haunt with eloquence
Glitter adorned angel please bring  solace to my heart
The beauty of “Ill be yours forever“, resplendent upon our lips

Things to Do When Looking For a Girl Friend

Whether you just got over a tough break up, you are looking for some companionship or you are looking for your first girl friend, there are some basic things to remember. A lot of these may seem obvious, but dating can be tough for many, and just getting a date can even be more complicated for one if you get easily nervous, you are shy, or just unsure about yourself. So here is what you have to remember and do.

1. If you are one of those guys who see a woman and refuses to ask her out because you think she might be taken, remember this. Most women are single. The married ones obviously have rings on, and the unmarried are open for the market. If they have a boyfriend you might of noticed already, but even still, chances are she is single. So if a woman catches your attention, why not ask her?  She will probably say yes, everyone likes to go out and have some fun. If she has a boyfriend she will respectfully decline. Take a chance and you will most likely have a great time.

2. If a friend invites you to do something you should go ahead and do it. Do like the movie “Yes Man.” Say yes to everything and  you will have some fun, get in some opportunities to meet people and have some fun. Say yes to concerts, charity, traveling, parties… All it will do is show you a good time, put you in situations to meet beautiful, sweet women and enjoy life.

3. You should obviously be confident. Stand up tall, wear  nice clothing like a blazer or suit, put on fancy cologne and talk with confidence. Know what you are talking about, and be up to date on whats been happening in the world around you, that way  if asked you can have something to say.

Part 2 Will be released soon

Romeo’s Tip of the Day: Buy Your Girl Roses

Valentine’s Day just came and went, and most guys out there probably just bought your wife or girl friend a dozen roses. Now you will sit around all year and do it again next February 14th. So here is a question for you, why do you wait unti holidays to show her you love her?

Show up to her workplace with a dozen, or even two dozen roses, they only cost maybe $15. Her eyes will shine with joy and her co-workers will all look upon her jealous that she got the good boyfriend/husband.

If there is a family get together, impress her parents and show up with roses for her. They will see you care and they will respect you for making her happy.

You can do this whenever, whether she is working, with family, with friends, or if you just want to surprise her at night with roses to remind her you have been thinking of her all day.  They cost $15 a dozen at most places, so you can simply cut down on buying perhaps a DVD or some other unneeded cost.

Five Things Not To Do After A Breakup - For Men

For all you men out there, when you break up with a girlfriend, and when she breaks up with you, completely different standards apply. Always remember that the law is against you.

1. Do not go to her work place: You may love her, you may want to talk to her and work things out, but the fact is, if she is so heartless that it comes down to this, it is not because she is “hurting too” it is because she simply is self obsessed and so not care.  By the time you arrive to her work place, chances are she has already lied to her fellow employees. You may just want to apologize, talk to her, or maybe leave on good terms while accepting that it is over, but again, she does not care. If you do this, you will make yourself look like a fool, her co-workers will act like you are crazy, stare you down, or even call security on you. You were not breaking any law, you were not being mean or threatening, you were trying to be respectful and act like a decent human being, but the law is against you. All a woman has to say is that you are stalking her or harassing her, and with a sham of an investigation you are found guilty. You can say that you only saw her once, that you did not even get the chance to approach her, but forces are against you. After loving someone for a year, two years, a decade, it does not matter to women, you will be slapped with a restraining order or even some jail time.

2. Apologize: You all may of broken up over a small argument, something that could have been easily worked out had you only been given the time. Even if you were the one that did something wrong, do not apologize. You may be sincere, you may really want to work things out, but she has already spent the past several hours or days lying to herself. She repeats things in her mind, she goes to her friends and even her nut family and she starts lying. She makes up stuff, exaggerates situations beyong belief, says whatever it takes to get them to start repeating her own lies. That way she hears it from them too. She does not care how sorry you are or what you had done for her over the past how ever many years. She has changed. It is not worth you apologizing. She has already told herself you are a jerk, nothing you say will change that.

3. Talk to her friends: You may think that her friends had seen how much you loved her over the years and that they had seen how happy you had made her. You can explain to them what the little argument was over, you can tell them you love her still and you want to win her back, but guess what, most likely, her friends are bitches. She has probably already spoken to them and lied to them as well. She tells them that you were abusive, mean and made her cry. Their initial thoughts were probably, “that’s strange, he always treated her so nice”, but that is the beauty of a lie, it changes what people think. When you ask them to please talk to her so that she may hear you out, instead of being sympathetic or caring, they will intentionally start trying to hurt you. They will repeat the lie, call you names, and tell you to “get over it.” And if the friend happens to be a guy, he will be more blunt, and probably has for a while now wanted to steal her from you. You could have thought these people were the nicest people ever, but the guy that was “like a brother” to her was really wanting her for himself and her girl friends were easily corruptable.

4.  Make any contact: She wants you to call her, text message her, email her, Myspace her, write her and so on. She just wants to hurt you more by simply refusing to read them. Do not give her the satisfaction of doing this. You may think that she is not really doing that, but even the most innocent, sweetest, and even supposedly forgiving Christian girl will do this to you.

5. Give her all of her stuff back: Unless she serves you papers or takes you to court, I would suggest that you do not give her any of her stuff back that may be at your residence. Whether it is clothing, jewelry, holiday items, stuff you had planned on giving her soon anyways, electronics, nothing. If she really wanted it, she would have not left you instantly like a crazy psycho and she would have been respectful and organized when leaving you. The only reason they leave stuff behind is so that you may feel guilty and try and return it, or you may go to give it to her hoping for a chance to see her and work things out. The thing is, she is not going to answer, she is going to get someone else to, or make you leave it at the doorstep. She wants you to feel alone, to see the familar doorstep that you had held her at so many times. She wants to hurt you.  Keep it all. If you really want to give it back, find some rude way to do it. Do not damage the goods, because even if it is a freakin plastic ring from a vending machine at a grocery store, she will get awarded a huge sum of money from judges when she just like magic all of a sudden wanted it back after not caring for it for years,